asam garam..

Last few days we had our third month anniversary....alhamdulillah I think we had a wonderful and an amazing 3 months together as husband and wife…but of course sometimes we do experience some bad moments in our life..i guess it is normal in marriage..yela bak kata org melayu, “sedangkan lidah lagi tergigit, inikan pulak suami isteri..”I know it is quite hard to always maintain the same energy, momentum and also the excitement like the early period of the marriage (like this first 3 months that I’ve experienced)..normally it’s like a linear regression process..chewah!!mathematic gile..hehe..as time goes by, the excitement will fade away.. it is even worse if the love might also eventually fade away without our knowing..this is sometimes makes me worried..i’m afraid that one day it happens to me because I can never know what will happen in the future..yela hati manusia ni kan boleh berubah bile2 mase..nauzubillah..lebih2 lagi skang ni mmg byk sgt cabarannye.if we look at the current situation nowadays, separation is now becoming a common nature in marriage..padahal inila mende yg paling dibenci Allah..ish takut aku..nauzubillah..doa2 it will never happen to us..i really love my wife..sape tak sayang bini ye tak..heh..now kene rajin2 bace buku (byk buku available in market now, normally the famous ones yg Men from Mars, Women From Venus tu and yg Why Women Can’t Read Map, Men Can’t Listen..rasenye camtula tajuknye) or dgr kaset (aku recommend any kaset from dr fadzilah kamsah) ke ceramah ke psl rumahtangga ni so that we, the so called Martian people ni will be constantly reminded about everything important in making a successful marriage as well as becoming a good husband..slalunye bile rajin aku dgr kaset je sambil2 tgh drive sbb aku ni jenis yg pemalas nk bace buku..aku rase mmg penting sgt to learn to understand our other half..somehow rather it makes you feel grateful to have her in your life..and of course sometimes it makes our life becomes a lot easier..in general mcm tula..nak tau lebih detail rajin2la bace or dgr kaset and yg penting skali amalkan..aku pun baru je melangkah ke alam baru ni…ilmu and pengalaman pun cetek lagi..but one thing for sure I can say is, marriage is a life’s miracle…kawen ni best!!!hehehe..oh one more thing, this is my personal opinion la..i think, not every individual will have/face the same experience/conflict/prob etc when they get themselves into marriage..evenif they face the same situation/conflict/prob etc, just remember that the similar approach of others will not simply give the way out…it does not always work like that..i think if you experience it,you yourself and/or your partner have to figure out how to face it..but of coursela tak salah kalo kite nak tanya or consult org2 or kwn2 especially our parents yg lebih pengalaman..that’s very good..at least we can learn something from their experience…diorang tau selok belok or liku2 dlm hidup berumah tangga ni..chewah ayat!!okla..dah melalut ke mane2 dah ni..anyway, insyaallah this weekend we will go some where to celebrate our third month anniversary..yay!!!may Allah bless us always..

“Happy Belated 3rd. Month Anniversary yang..”

Oraitla..asyik psl kawen je lately ni..hehe..ala kasila can org baru kawen ni..hehe..actually today at work there is nothing much..just carry out the normal routine, reading the research material..ergh!!boring..susah gakla nak wat research if you don’t actually like reading like me..it’s simply because, the rule of thumb states that before you can undertake any research work, you will need to do a lot of literature review..i.e massive readings. This kind of background research is vital to get the clear understanding on the research area from every angle. Basically you have to know what have been done so far or what are the current works being carried out or what are the technologies available in the market. There are actually a lot of other questions that need to be asked, especially the 4W1H before you can kick off the research work. I personally think this is really tough for those who have no experience at all in carrying out research work like me and yet, the literature review report still need to be submitted in a month or two because it’s the KPIs. Oh God!!rasenye nak kene dpt bonus dulu kot ni baru btul2 semangat..hahaha..that’s the point sbenarnye..hahaha…