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Wednesday, July 19, 2006

my bestfriend's wedding

orait..second entry in 2 consecutive days..a very good progress i guess..heh..where were I yesterday?oh orait..actually our house is close to my in laws'. Senang la kalo nak balik visit..jln kaki je sbb belakang rumah..hahah..bukan dekat lagi dah, sekangkang kera namenye tu..lagipun my FIL tak berape sehat..so it is best if we stay close just in case they need us, we can like.. taraaa..hey,we are here!!i'm married to their first child so technically i also share the responsibility as the eldest..lagipun i also the eldest in my siblings, so insyaallah nothing to worry..ala my in-laws pun like my parents jugak kan..what else..i like my house..very simple and sederhanala to cut it short..for me,as long as the house is neat and tidy and cukup segala bende2 asas, syukur alhamdulillah..kalo ade rezeki (rezeki anak ke nanti..heheh) later maybe we can make it a better place to live in..

hmm..now kat malaysia ni i guess kisah ct is the one that people most talk about besides the glamourous AF3 guy yg putus tunang tu..actually aku tak angkat pot sgt anything related to dunia2 glamour ni which full of gossips..tapi since dah kawen ni kene gakla amek tau sket2..hehe..yesterday my wife,her boss and her colleagues they all ramai2 watch together the press conference where ct and that datuk anouncing their relationship as well as their wedding..diorang tgk dlm kete her boss..bersemangat btul..hehe...she told me that she was hoping fazley (the AF4 teacher) would turn up during the conference instead of that datuk..she knows it's kind of impossible to happen but who knows..unfortunately it didn't happen..so sorry dear..my wife she never likes the idea of ct marrying that datuk because that datuk already got a wife whom he just divorced recently..actually me myself also not agree to that extend..of course maaa..lu sudah ade bini, yes mmg dlm process penceraian but there's hope that the marriage still can be saved..im sure there is love still left between them..tapi kalo ade org cucuk jarum mmg susahla beb..lebih2 lagi mcm ct..anyway, i respect her decision to marry that datuk...lagipun dia yg nak hidup bersama..susah senang jatuh bangun..dia mesti dah consider all the consequences for this kind of decision..love is very unpredictable..tak kenal siape, usia, agama, darjat, pangkat etc..so semoga berbahagia la hendaknya to both of them mendirikan rumah tangga..jgn jadi mcm erra and yusry sudah..nauzubillah..oh one more thing, im sure everybody in malaysia realises this...it's like a trend nowadays where artists (esp female artists) get married to vvip..don't care whether that vvip guy duda, laki org or even atuk org (yg ni tak sure ade ke tak..rasenye of course ade..yela malaysia boleh beb)..ape ke halnye ni..mcm la dah tade langsung laki bujang kat malaysia ni..ramai aku rase tapi maybe the one that suits to them tade kot..kalo ade pun tak berani nak gamble take the chance..plus new generations single men nowadays are facing serious social problems..in a peculiar case study,statistics clearly show that now women are much better in terms of number in our local universities and also in most of our corporate world..they even much better in the quality aspect too..so what happen to men now?a big question mark huh..guys,like it or not, that's the reality man..so i guess this requires a serious and deep thinking to be done..of course some may agree some may not and i believe a lot of things need to be further discussed bout this scenario..okla i rest my case up to this point..maybe later kalo rajin i might pour out my personal views..

haaa..dah terlanjur ckp psl kawen2 ni this weekend my best friend MF and also other friend MR will end their bachelorhood..setelah sekian lame gersang...hahaha..just kidding man..most likely i will be the bestman for my best friend MF (actually still under consideration but aku claim aku bestman ko jela..hahah)...when i got married last april he was actually my bestman...talk about him, fyi we have been friends for almost 11 years..in simple,here is the chronology.. we were in the same boarding school in perak where he was well-known as the kepala for nasyiders and also kembar cikgu padani (because of the hair..jgn mara aaa..hehe)...back then we were in the same house,same class (form 1,3,4 and 5) both school prefect...then we both got an offer to further study oversea with a scholarship from the same company..we went to the same college for our a-level..alhamdulillah both succeeded to proceed our study to the UK..again, we were accepted to study in the same university but different course...there then we were housemate...alhamdulillah we accomplished our master degree and back home, we work in the same company but he is now working in east cost and i'm in bangi..now he's getting married to his long-lost secondary school mate...they met in UK, same uni but she's doing medic...still not finish her study yet..abesla ko pas kawen tinggal sorang2 balik..heheh..pity to u man..but hey,making sacrifice is part and parcel in marriage..don't worry, God knows what's the best..so aku nak wish ko selamat pengantin baru and may Allah bless you and your love one always..hopefully everything will be going well as you planned for your wedding and sabar beb jgn rakus sgt..hahahah...

p/s: since we both gile bola, we have actually made a pack, to get our son involve in football and train them and see whose son is better..aku bugdet confirm anak ko kene nutmeg byk kali mcm ko kene dgn aku gak..no offence bro but...heheheh..
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I love our new house. I pretend it's an apartment. We maintain the concept of minimalism :)
The best thing about the house is that it has all the important Astro channels like HBO and StarWorld (and not so important ones like ESPN hehe)

About Siti, after all the frustrations and membebeling I've finally given up. Whateverla Siti. My boss and colleagues got out of the car during the advert because no one dared to ask, what about the ex-wife?

To MF and MR, congratulations!! I know you both dah tak sabar nak kawin hehe. I can tell you married life is just as fantastic as you imagine and then some.

ans to p/s: how come I never heard of this pack??? my poor unborn child is already subjected to the misfortune of having a footballer as a father...tsk tsk..to MF, tell your fiance to contact me to hear about the 'glorious' life of a footballer's wife. hehe..
-aida